The energy of the wife or mother drives everything. Her energy moves into each room. Her warmth moves into each room of the house. When a mother is happy the home is filled with joy and happiness. When a mother is sad, sadness fills every inch of the home. When a mother is excited, the home receives her and everyone else with excitement.
If you were interested in learning a foreign language, you would begin with the basics. Like learning the ABCs? In order to learn your partner's language, you must begin with the basics. So, the question to ask yourself is "what are the basics of my partner's language? What are the foundations?