Daughters need to know that you care. When your daughter needs a lot of attention, it is important that you give her the attention she seeks because you as a parent represent her first impression of love and affection.
If you were interested in learning a foreign language, you would begin with the basics. Like learning the ABCs? In order to learn your partner's language, you must begin with the basics. So, the question to ask yourself is "what are the basics of my partner's language? What are the foundations?