The one thing every man should know about his spouse is that his spouse’s energy controls the energy within the home because she is the heart and, the center of the home. A husband plays an important role in the energy shift.
The energy of the mom drives everything. Her energy moves into each room. Her warmth moves into each room of the house. When a mother is happy the home is filled with joy and happiness. When a mother is sad, sadness fills every inch of the home. When a mother is excited, the home receives her and everyone else with excitement.
Happy Wife, Happy Life.
Whomever it was that coined the phrase, “happy wife, happy life,” was definitely on to something. So also 1 Peter 3:7, encourages husbands to be considerate of the way they live with their wives so as to not hinder their prayers. I notice that on the days that I am frustrated, my kids are a bit more agitated. When I come home from work excited, I can feel the energy from the front door, when I am sad, my kids’ energy is low, they worry, they become sad to match my energy.
Every Man should Know what Drives the Energy in His Home.
What every man should understand about his spouse is that the energy of his home is dependent on the joy she feels. The joy of his children is dependent on her joy. So, do those things that bring joy to your spouse, no matter how little it may be. Even just a little gesture to make her smile each day, will go a long way to shifting the energy in the home and the peace in the home.
Bring Joy, Laughter, and Peace into Your Home.
The message on this post is simple. Husbands, discover the things that bring joy, laughter, and peace and lovingly do just a bit of those things each day. Because the Joy, the Laughter and the Peace within the home depends on it.
What is the one thing you feel that every man should know about their spouse?
thanks for exploring this topic with me
Nikki
15 Comments
Cristina Petrini
Respect, understanding and dialogue the real and unique solution for a lasting and full of love marriage.
Brenda
Hi it’s Brenda from RubyHemMinistries.com I’ve always heard the saying, “Happy wife, happy life.” I just wish more men understood it. As someone who’s just now re-entering the dating field after 13 some years, I definitely need a man to understand this.
Maria Black
Happy wife, happy life indeed! It’s so helpful when our partners can help us bring peace to a stressful day instead of adding to it! Thanks for sharing your perspective!!
Nikki
Thanks Maria.
Surabhi
So true! I love the quote, happy wife happy life and I completely abide by this
Vee - Designs-byvee.com
I definitely agree! Happy wife, happy life. I’ll have to share this post with my future husband . I do believe the wife is the heart of the home. So your husband understanding that is major. I’ll definitely share. Thanks for sharing your post with us.
Nikki
Thanks for reading.
Natalie
Love these tips! And totally agree with “happy wife, happy life!” It’s very true
Nikki
Thanks!
Jennie
Thanks for sharing. Good communication is another big one in a successful marriage.
Nikki
Yes, communication is essential.
Jen @ Jenron Designs
I completely agree I think every marriage could benefit from this type respect towards each other, I can not tell you how often I hear ladies say ” he is a good provider” as a description of their husband and it truly breaks my heart to know they do not have a loving relationship at home.
Jenny
Lovely post. Mutual respect is important too. I think joy and communication and more go both ways. The more the merrier 😉
rosemary | a hint of rosemary
As a very woman who has been happily married for over 40 years, I’m here to say …great advice!!
Nikki
40 years, wow! Well, if you think my advice is great after 40 years of marriage then I can’t wait for the next 30 years of marriage.